The majority of people understand that being married can be entirely hard, however I don’t know if this is what I signed up for or not.
- My hubby Russ thought it would be best to change tasks last year and ever since then, our life has been ten times more difficult; When the people I was with and I first got married, Russ had a great job with respected hours! He was gone while in the morning and he was beach condo at day and night.
He almost never had to work overtime and he never worked late at night or in the middle of the night. But last year, Russ decided to quit the task he had when the people I was with and I first got hitched and go back to school. He wanted to take Heating, Ventilation, and A/C classes at our local technical school and start absolutely working at one of the best local heating and cooling companies, and of course, Russ is a smart guy and he breezed right through all of the heating, cooling, and ventilation classes at the technical school. He scored the highest in all of his tests and got promoted to a Heating, Ventilation, and A/C contractor right away. He’s also extremely kind and he had his choice of which heating and cooling companies he wanted to go to work for, then unfortunately for me, the Heating, Ventilation, and A/C company that he chose ended up wanting him to work mornings and weekends, I don’t really have a concern with him absolutely working on some mornings, however the biggest problem is that they consistently want Russ to be on call for oil furnace and a/c emergencies that come up. It’s become a real concern for us. We don’t chat at all anymore, and when he is beach condo he’s sleeping. I have a feeling he’s going to have to change companies, works, or wives!